MALE Thinking Style / MTS: Male Thinkers, or when behaving in Male Thinking Mode

The Male stereotype thinks in terms of HOW. The MTS likes to solve the situation so she/he can drop the pressure and get back to relaxation / nothing mode. When we are in MTS, mode it is wise to remember that someone else may be more interested in a deeper understanding of the scenario before fixing it. Offer empathy. E.g It sounds like you would feel better if we spent more time understanding “Why” this situation happened and “WHO” else is involved? If you get a yes, ask, would you be willing to hear my perspective? If you get a yes, respond by: Sharing Your Feelings e.g. : My stress level with this hanging in the air is pretty high. Your Desire e.g.: if this situation continues any longer, more people could be affected. In respect of my, and the well -being of others, Request e.g. : Would you be willing to discuss the why and how after we fix it?