20 Questions to Discover YOUR Thinking Style

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You hear an indistinct bark. Without looking around how well can you place the dog?

A dog with its mouth open and it's tongue hanging out.

You don't know if you could point to it

If you think about it you can point to it

You can point straight to it

How good are you at remembering a song you've just heard?

A girl is laying down with her head on top of the bed.

You find it easy and you can sing part of it in tune

You can only do it if it's simple and rhythmical

You find it difficult

A person you've met a few times telephones you. How easy is it for you to recognize that voice in the few seconds before the person tells you who they are?

A woman sitting at the table talking on her phone.

You'd find it quite easy

You'd recognize the voice at least half the time

You'd recognize the voice less than half the time

You're with a group of married friends. Two of them are having a clandestine affair. Would you detect who is having an affair?

A woman and man in bed with one hand up to the side of their face.

Nearly always

Half the time

Seldom

You're at a large and purely social gathering. You're introduced to five strangers. If their names are mentioned the following day how easy is it for you to picture their faces?

A woman is watching a presentation on the screen.

You'll remember most of them

You'll remember a few of them

You'll seldom remember any of them

In your early school days how easy was spelling and the writing of essays?

A group of students sitting at desks in front of blackboard.

Both were quite easy

One was easy

Neither was easy

You spot a parking place but you must reverse into it , it's going to be fairly tight squeeze:

A dark tunnel with lights and signs above it.

You look for another space

You back into it.. carefully

You reverse into it without much thought

You've spent three days in a strange village and someone asks you which way is north:

A woman in a gray coat and purple sweater.

You're unlikely to know

You're not sure but given a moment you can work it out

You point north

You're in a dentist's waiting room with half a dozen people of the same sex as yourself. How close can you sit to one of them without feeling uncomfortable?

A group of people sitting in front of a reception desk.

Less than 6 inches (15 cm)

6 inches to 2 feet (15 cm to 60 cm)

Over 2 feet (60 cm plus)

You're visiting your new neighbor and the two of you are talking. There's a tap dripping gently in the background. Otherwise, the room is quiet:

A faucet dripping water with three drops of water.

You'd notice the dripping sound immediately and try to ignore it

If you noticed it, you'd probably mention it

It doesn't bother you at all

You feel confused about an experience that occurred at work or in your home life.

A woman sitting at a table with an orange juice.

You talk about it with someone you trust to better understand it

You wait at least an hour or maybe even a day before you speak with someone about it

You don't speak of it to anyone until you have figured it out for yourself

When making love you prefer:

A man and woman are looking at each other.

Darkness

Dim lighting

Enough light to see your partner's eye color

When deciding whether to enter a deep intimate relationship you first:

Establish safety and trust by matching words with actions

Express the same ideals

Use your intuition

When packing for a two-week vacation:

A person sitting on the floor with luggage and camera.

You write a needs list in advance and pack at least 8 hrs. in advance of the departure time

You carefully make a list in your mind and pack the night before or early the same day of departure

You wake up, pack, and go to the airport

When driving to an unknown destination you

A car driving down the road on a curvy road.

look at the map the night before, follow the map or (guidance device) and ask for directions at the first hint of possibly being lost

look at the map before you start driving, pay careful attention to signs or (guidance device) and only ask for directions if you are running late

trust you will find your destination and only ask for directions when things seem hopeless

When going out to socialize you prefer:

A group of people standing around each other.

To know at least 48 hrs. in advance where you are going and who might be there so you can prepare energetically and physically (e.g., what to wear)

To know in advance of the time and date but the details are only moderately important

To be surprised about where and who will be there

You enter the shopping mall to buy a pair of warm winter boots at Macy's.

A woman and child walking in front of a store.

You get sidetracked by all the other stores, bargains and new winter inventories. It takes you a half hour before you finally get to the shoe department at Macy’s.

You see and feel all the possibilities but by using your willpower and a promise to yourself to look after you get your boots, you arrive quickly to Macy’s shoes and by your boots.

You go directly to buy your boots at Macy's and are proud that you accomplished your mission in 20 minutes.

You are at a club on a Saturday night enjoying the music when you notice someone across the room that you are immediately highly attracted to. He / She walks over to you, looks you in the eyes and with a sincere tone of voice asks you; Will you make love with me tonight?

A man and woman holding hands at a table.

You, using a brief sentence or explanation with body language say in effect an emphatic "NO"

You find yourself considering it but your sense of reason predominates and you say "No"

You are intrigued by this person's attractiveness and either the surprise, mystery or the challenge of this situation motivates you and you say, YES.

Long lasting marriages and partnership relationships maintain a balance between 1) Trust (consistency between words and actions), 2) Romance (creative communication where dreams are shared between partners with all 5 senses(e.g. reciting poetic words, holding hands, delicious, aromatic food, soft background music) and 3) Passion ( an extremely stimulating, compelling soulful connection expressed by high sensual and sexual energy circulating within every cell creating an intense attraction for the person one feels this experience with. Which two of these three are most important to you?

A man and woman holding hands with one of them wearing an engagement ring.

Trust Romance

Trust Passion

Romance Passion

Without any forewarning, you receive a note from your boss saying that your services at work (a job you like ) are no longer required and to please take all your personal belongings from the office before the end of day.

A woman holding up a sign that says " you 're fired ".

You immediately call your best friend to communicate your surprise and to discuss what happened in hopes of making some sense of the situation.

You inquire within yourself to get some understanding for half an hour before you talk to someone else at work who may help you understand what happened.

You either 1) Enter your boss's office unannounced, demand an explanation and fend your right to keep the job or 2) After a moment of reflection, you tell yourself that's life and it must be meant for you to be elsewhere.

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